On this day( May 18th2018) my trance reflection was about children, I asked about autism, and ways of being, etc.. I am aware that many people may not agree or identify with what I was told, but it is not my intention to create an arena for what is right or what is wrong, Spirit's thoughts on issues is just another way of looking at things.Being a Social Worker, I often reflect on social issues, etc..
Below is my Spirit Guide's message, whom I call "Manalan". I'm grateful for his presence, work and guidance. ***
"The world , the Universe is guiding many young people right now as they are the future of humanities to come, their ways are different than your ways. For this reason, you are to let them be. You are to let them enjoy their ways, they are free spirited".
Is that the same for younger children these days Manalan?
"Yes, the younger children are even more elevated as they are freshly coming into the world from our side, their minds and ways are more peaceful."
Manalan, if and when I work with parents of children, what are some of the things I should do or keep in mind with them?
"You can do many things with children. Children are magnificent, they are everything that the adults are not and for this reason often the society has much trouble with them in regards to wanting them to conform to the ways of adults, but the children know their own way. They don't understand this."
Manalan for example if I have a child who has what I have, Attention Deficit Disorder, comes to my office, what would you recommend for that child?
"Let them be, Let them be the judge of what you should do. Let them voice themselves out to you, let them express themselves and feelings. They are very attuned with what is going on. Children know their own ways, they are more intelligent than the adults around them believe. Children are magnificent, for this reason even in the Holy Bible it says to enter the doors of heaven you must be like a child. This means that your thoughts cannot be working against you. To be like a child means to allow the universe to guide you, children are guided by their own souls for they have not been thought what is good or bad. For this reason they are magnificent."
Manalan, there are many children experiencing what is called Autism on earth, can you talk to me about this.
"Yes, Autism is nothing but a different way of thinking, these children whom you call Autistic are not ill. Their comprehension and their ways of being, thinking and acting are different than other people. For this reason the most profound thing you can do for them is to let them know, let them feel that there is nothing wrong with them. The society at large defines behavior, it defines all behavior, it defines what is right and wrong, what is expected and not, therefore, when people are diagnosed with ailments and illness', it is basically out of the scales of the definition of society and how they view things. These people will often need to be allowed to remember their own love, their own joy. They are not ill, they are experiencing issues on earth only because they cannot fit into the definitions of what is expected, what is considered normal within the society's rules. Society doesn't even know what is normal. What is normal within your society is what the majority have been doing. But the majority don't always know what is good or what is real. For this reason, acceptance of the person where they are is very important. Accept the person the way they are, the way they think, the way they act and just accept them and let them be."
Its very difficult sometimes Manalan for parents, who are hearing a lot of negativity from schools, etc. its very difficult for them to cope.
"Yes, of course its very difficult for them to cope, because they are being told something that is not true. They know very well within their own minds and bodies that their children are loving, kind and compassionate human beings but they are told to fit their children into a box that is not able to handle their presence. Children cannot be fitted into boxes that accommodate all of them. There will be many people, many children who will not be able to fit into a box that is not created for them. And thus, these parents will feel the vengeance of the society around them. What you can say to them is "I am aware that you have been told that something is wrong with your child, I am aware that you have been told your child is not acting like the other children, I am aware of the difficulty you are experiencing when you are told these things but you are to know that all things that are created on earth , whether its the smallest creature or most magnificent , they and all were created in perfection. if they were not perfect, including your children, they would not be on earth."
Why do some children experience such things as autism Manalan?
"What you call Autism, are a group of symptoms, that are defined by society. These symptoms were created on earth. The reasons that are causing these symptoms were created on earth, for this reason these symptoms can be managed on earth also. What are the things that are causing these symptoms, that should be the question", not why is there autism or what makes autism be an illness...The things that are causing autism in children that you are seeing in more profound ways are the things such as the vaccinations that are given to children, the chemicals that are found in them and the both of them reflecting and projecting onto each other and creating symptoms that are an illusion but felt as reality on your level. Autism is not genetic, autism is not genetic meaning passed on from person to person. Autism has been created by mankind. Created all by mankind. For when God created this heaven and this earth, there were no symptoms, there were no illness, there were no diseases, there were no complications, there were no problems. All of these were created by mankind. Mankind should be blaming its own self, not questioning the symptoms. For if they really were questioning the symptoms, they would look onto their own selves."
I understand what you are saying Manalan, but I also know that its very difficult for people to accept that......
"Yes, of course its difficult Because your doctors, your leaders, your clergyman , your higher up individuals are all blaming things that are not the cause of this"
I understand what you are saying Manalan, what would you say to these parents if you were in my place Manalan?
"First thing I would say to them "I am aware of what you are experiencing, but I don't understand it, as it is not in my own experience. As it is not in my own experience because I lack the wisdom; knowing that these things were not created from the heavens."
Okay, I am a little confused there but....... when I am working with people, what would you advise me to say to them as far as the way I work with people, as most therapist seem to define themselves with a modality of therapy... but I have a hard time putting myself and other people into a box or to identify with certain ways of thinking or being.
"When someone is asking you what your ways of working with people are, what you can tell them is "I am a human being, therefore I see human beings, I see within people what I see within my own self". Let that be your guidance. Do not ever judge another being, do not ever allow your own mind to judge another human being thinking that something is wrong with them and they need fixing. There is nothing to be fixed about anyone, people are perfect the way they are. For the way they are makes sense to them"
If I am working with a child, what can I assist that child with so his life is not so hard?
"What you can do for that child is for them to identify all the love within them, to identify all the goodness within them and let them lead the path for you. Children know what love is, often it is the older people who have walked away from love. Often it is their own families who are trying to put children into a box, so they don't have to worry. Its not about the child but it is about the family. Encourage the family to reflect on all the good things about the child, encourage them to see all the wonderful qualities their child has. They must acknowledge that they are the source of the issues that most children are feeling; they, often being aware are encouraging the child to suffer unnecessarily. Let them just love their child. Let them Love. "