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All that we behold and perceive by our senses bears undeniable witness to the existence of God--the stone and the cloud, the plants and the trees, the living creatures, the heavens and the earth and the stars, the dry land and the ocean, the fire and the air, substance and accident. Indeed, we ourselves are the chief witnesses to Him. But just as the bat sees only at night and cannot see in the daytime because of the weakness of its sight, which is dazzled by the full light of the sun, so also the human mind is too weak to behold the full glory of the Divine Majesty. --- Al-Ghazzali





FATHER GOD AND I



This blog contains numerous spiritual conversations between God and I. All things are possible, including of direct communication with our Creator, source of our Spirit.I call this communicating with Spirit. Many have many ways of explaining it. Within this blog, I have also placed some writings from different books and/or people that I have found loving/awakening to my spirit. Thank you so much for visiting. Blessings. Sehnaz







September 27, 2010

Raising Your Children(channeled)

I approached God, God within our Spirits, about Raising our Children on Earth, these were the kind wisdom of Father God).  This was a conversation between us on 9/22/2010.I will put Father God's wisdom in Parenthesis for my reader to distinguish our communication. Thank you for sharing this with me.
                                                                
Father God, reading the book, "A course in Miracles", I realize that you are within me -  I mean your voice is coming from within our Spirits.  Sometimes when I speak with you , I talk to you as if I am talking to a person who is sitting across from me, from the outside of my body..but I do realize you are coming through my mind because your presence is within us.

"Yes,   I want you to know that I am all encompassing your body and Spirit as I like to because my children are of myself."

I realize that and I thank you.  That is so honorable for us as your children to know.

"I am the one that is honored by your accepting this view of myself as your Spirit."

I thank you .  You are always so graceful with your words Father God.

"Yes, but so are you my child."

Father God, today I come to you to talk about an important subject here on Earth.  I would like for you to talk to us as to "how to best care for our children."

"Yes, I was anticipating this topic because it is a very important topic for me to discuss with you my child under the heavens.  What you call children are my beings, they selected you as their parents, because they wanted to experience life as you also did.  Their selection of you as their guardians on this earth is very purposefully chosen.  They selected you as their parents for your home and being, because it offered them the lessons that they are trying to achieve on this earth.  They may not be clear about this but you are to be very clear about it.  For you are to encourage their growth under your supervision while they are young in bodies.  Their bodies may be young, but their Spirits are not as young as you think they are.  They have lived many times as you also have.  But their contribution to your being is also great, for they are to teach you lessons, to incorporate in your learning about them but also for your own learning.  They come to you with little bodies, they grow up into larger beings, they than focus on their lives but they are to be in guidance of you forever as you are in guidance of me forever.  They are entrusted in your care for they are the ones who have chosen you as their mothers and fathers to learn from and to be wisely guided by.   They are not responsible for you or for your well being, they are responsible for their own selves and for the lessons they chose to learn in this life.  I like to make this very clear to you.  They are not responsible for you.  But, their responsibility is to their own selves in order to grow and to as best they can be.  Their lives are as fruitful as yours, your lives are to be as fruitful as mine is.  For this reason you have to be a remarkable person to their well being and to raising and guiding them within the light of my wisdom and philosophy. 

There are parents who are not always kind to them, for this reason many of my children are suffering on this earth.  But, their suffering should be respected and allowed to a point for suffering can also be a learning tool for their mind and Spirits.  When they come to your being, they are in full awareness of their own selves.  They are encompassed in a small body but they are very clearly aware of their selves.  You must remember this - for many times people see an infant and think that they don't understand anything.  But, in reality they know more than you do, because they have recently left the heavens of my gardens and they came there brand new, in a brand new body for the reasons that are very clear to them.  For this reason, when you see an infant, don't be fooled by your eyes of their measurement.  They are small, but they may be wiser than you will ever be.  You have to respect and love each child of my creation.  They are the light carriers of this earth just as you and all of my children are."

Father God - how do you recommend that we raise the children in our care?

"Let them be, let them be who they want to be.  For a reason this is stated to you.  Because, they are fully aware of what they want to be and what they want to do on this earth.  Let my children be who they want to be.  Allow them to experience all things you can, for through experience they will prosper and learn.  Their mistakes are only learning mechanisms, they will make many mistakes-but do not be fooled by their presences in those moments of growing because they will come to their senses and See the light within them."

Father God, when children are teenagers they tend to become a bit oppositional and hard headed.

"Yes, you are living through that stage with your children.  But, let me remind you that they are trying to figure out what is best for them and what is their purpose in their lives.  For this reason, when they are "oppositional" as you say -- we say "they are learning from being this way." Because, by being in opposition of you, they don't want to be like you.  For this reason, they are trying to figure out their own well being and ways of being.  Let them be oppositional - for they are the ones who will learn from their selves and from their mistakes."

But, Father God, if we see our kids doing wrong things should we correct them?.

"Yes, of course, to a point you must correct them but never to replace their thoughts about themselves and about the world they live in.  They are the ones who will decide this for themselves."

How about in regards to school Father God.  Should we be encouraging them to do better and all that?

"Yes, of course you must do these type of learning encouragements for their learning.  Because, they may not realize  that their path may be easier if they were to do better in their academia and you are allowed to be of help and assistance to them."

Father God, as you know that although, I was born into the religion of my family...I was never really brought strictly upon it.  I was thought to respect and to obey God but never brought to anyone place for worship and all that.  Today, at this age I attend a service, where we celebrate your Spirit..but, my children say they don't want to attend, etc.. should I make them come with me although they may not want to?

"Yes, you must do this.  Because they are impressionable.  When you allow them to be impressed by so many things, they will than follow the path of their own impulses and their impulses are material gains at this time of their growing.  For this reason, you can show them a way of being by taking them to be in attendance of your religious services. 

 Now,  I would like to celebrate the lives of all my small children for they deserve to be celebrated as they chose their own enchanting lives for themselves.  They deserve to be worshipped and be very well taken care of by you.  You are to celebrate their being, you you must not be them in Spirit - as they  are already full of their own Spirit and they are wise in many ways."

Father God, this brings me to what you would say when children are having behavior problems.?

"They are having behavior problems for a reason my dear woman, you know this as well as I do, but you are asking this to me for others who would like to be aware of this situation.  Let me tell you, behavior is a very clearly chosen path of being by yourself, your mind and being.  You are choosing your own behavior for I have allowed your Spirits to experience freedom of will and choice.  For this reason, when children are accomplishing less than what they should be, than they are using this element of their being.  They are experiencing behavior problems because their lives are chaotic, they are experiencing behavior problems because their role models are not modeling great behavior for them, they are experiencing behavior problems because their learning is faulty by design.  By design of his family around them and their friends. 

 For this reason when you are talking about a child who is experiencing behavior problems you have to clearly look and examine your own self.  You are the master of your own self but you can also be a teacher to these children who are being bad because they are learning faulty information either from their parents or those around them.  Their learning is faulty and for this reason, they are acting the way they are.  Their being is not bad,  but their portrayed and shown behavior is faulty and negative for a reason.  When a child of mine chooses to do wrong than it is clearly a learning that has gone faulty."

Father God, on this Earth there are so many kids who are learning what they should be learning, but than  there are many kids who are in many homes where they are not learning good things, because there are so many problems and issues in their homes.  Some parents are not even raising  or teaching right things to their children.?

"Let me today first celebrate the beings of my heavens for they are trying to do their best.  There will be some of you on earth who are electing to be self centered.  You are using your life just for you and for this reason you are not focusing on your children.  But, when this occurs your children will be neglected, and abused and for this reason they will develop coping mechanisms that are there to help them but also can destroy them.  For example:  when you are neglecting a child - this child may decide to focus on his outer self and for this reason they will neglect their inner resources.  And when this occurs, the child may be using substances that may be bad for their bodies and well being.  They may punish their own selves by using substances and items that can be a danger to their well being."

Father God, can you give me some factors that can foster a good relationship with our children? and things people can keep in their minds..

Yes.  #1  Love yourself, when you love yourself  you will love others around you.


#2  Love the others around you, when you love others they love you.  And this interchange of emotions will allow both of you to grow.


#3  Well being, is well being Physically and mentally.  But, you tend to focus on only one on Earth.


#4  You are to remember that you are a child of God, who has created you out of his own well being, mind and spirit.  Let my children know that when they neglect or abuse a child of this world , they are also punishing me.  For this, I will not recognize their being.


#5 I will allow you to teach my beings all the good and positive things they need in order to grow as people and in Spirit.


#6  Let me remind you that you are created in perfection and for this reason you should only see perfection in each being and spirit around you.


#7  You are to remind your children of my being for I am the creator of them and their world.


#8  You are to bless yourselves by blessing others around you.


#9  Let me remind you again, your faults are not faults.  They are to be learned from.


#10  You are the loving child of loving God who will always care for you.  But, when you neglect to know this and when you neglect to not remember this, than you feel lost.  You feel lost in the world, on earth and in your own being.


#11You are not the masters of others, they are the creator and master of their own selves.

#12  They (children) remember who they are and you are to remember who you are.

#13  Let me provide you with my loving words of wisdom by exchanging the information in your minds that are negative and faulty with the positive and loving gentle reminders of myself and heavens.  For you are my child and I love you.

#14.  Remember you will get old and you will get better as time passes by in your presence.  This time will teach you many things, but you are the one who must select and choose to learn from its ways.

#15  Don't keep your minds closed, open your minds, open them so wide that you can sense and feel the vibrations of your earth around you.  When you close your mind, your mind will not go on further--for you are electing to no any further--for you are electing to not learn from Spirit but from material things on earth.

#16  Your earth has many resources.  These resources are not lacking for this reason-share-all you have with those around you.  When you do this, your spirit will grow in abundance.

#17  Let me remind you, you are a child of God and I will forever welcome you home and care for you.  When you are home and when you are in Human form.

#18  Your mothers and fathers are to be respected for what they are trying to do on your behalf.  When you have no respect for your Fathers and Mothers, you have no respect for yourself.  They cared for you and you must care for them.

#19  You are to remember there is an order to everything on Earth.  And the order is created by my presence only.  For I am the only God there is in this Universe.  For you are to remember my presence each day and each moment in all things possible.

#20  I love you.  I love you from all my being.  For I created you and my love shall care for you and my love will always be with you.  Let me remind you as this as the last factor - for LOVE is the largest emotion I have placed in your hearts.  When you lack in love, it is because you have chosen that.  Your body and mind will not feel well when you lack love. Love for me is love for each other - and love for each other is love for me.

"  There is not much to say further on this communication for the topic of "caring for my children, because it has all been said too often.  "LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF."  When you do this, you will always respect and love the others around you."

                                                                  
Thank you Father God.

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This was the end of my lesson on the subject.  I pray and wish that it will bring Peace and Love into your hearts and homes, and allow us to remember the loving beings we are and to be.

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