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Spirit Emmanuel's words: " A relationship is a profound experience within your life on earth, for it serves many factors in your lives. I like to first tell you that a relationship is a focus of attention because it is an intimate moment of your journey that you are encountering with another being that will allow you to grow and expand in your spirit, you are expanding in your mind about many factors. First, the factor of love is there. Love will allow you to experience great heightened emotions of your mind, body and spirit. Love in not a coincidence, a loving person will always encounter a loving view of the world. When you are out of the scope of love, you are changing your body energy into a loving but less understanding being. When you love someone, you are exposing yourself to many truths but emotions also. Let this be a warning to about Love. Love is a great emotion, for me it has served so many meaningful events in my life. I loved many people as I lived on earth also, but this love wasn't always there, it was a moment of history that became a loving moment for me. I was born into a family but, there was lack of love within the people there, for this reason I searched for love as I became aged and be more willing to be a loving guide to all on Love. Love is a small factor but a big emotion in your life. As I grew up, I remember suffering from the environment I was born in and for this reason I chose to be a loving person. When I was alive, I wanted to be a loving person because I wanted to be loved by others also. I loved all people that were in my life."
Emmanuel continues..: " When a person loves another person, the chemicals within the body are being transposed into numerous other chemicals, for this is the reason for LOVE. I loved many people, but many people did not love me back and for this reason I chose further to be more loving. When you love someone, there is a great performance of interaction within your lives, minds and spirits. Your Spirit is profound in the course of this loving exchange and interaction. You must find ways of loving the people around you in order to understand them. There is always something to love about the people around you. When a person enters your life and they are unable to be loved by you, it is your greater mind telling you that you are not able to love them for the way they are because you choose to think like this. Let me tell you how to love someone, loving someone is to be a positive element on this earth. When you love someone you are fore letting go of their negative energies and they in return will follow your direction."
Emmanuel continues...:" There is a master of Love, it is our Father who is in Heaven. He is the master of love because, he has been available to love all things and all being on this earth, regardless of what they do, what they say and how they act. When you want to love greatly, you must remember his great loving energy that is always present within you. You are the creator, but the Loving Creator has always been there for you. You are to remember his words of love and watch these words happen in your lives."
(At this point , I gave Emmanuel an example of a girlfriend in Turkey, who is married to a man and feels no love in their marriage, but they have a one year old child. I asked about what he would say about this ))
Emmanuel continued.." There is always a love in relationship between people, you may not understand this but love exists among different levels among people also. They may not love each other, but they may love a being that is with them. They may not love each other, but they may love a child between them. They are the one's who must come to that conclusion themselves, but you are not the creator of love between them in their lives"
((what can a couple do living in that situation, would you give me some practical ideas?))
Emmanuel continued.." Yes, you must love yourself in order to love others, when you cannot love yourself, you cannot love others. This is a point I must make, in order to make you realize that love is not going to occur, if you don't have self love."
((AT this point, I asked Father God's thoughts))
Father God , are you there?
"Yes, I am listening to this exchange of stories between you and Emmanuel. You must realize that he was a being like you, there are times when you will think that a Spirit doesn't know what they are talking about, but you must realize that they also lived in abundance like you do. You have to find greater levels of love between yourselves."
((Father God, I gave Emmanuel the example of a girlfriend in Turkey and her relationship with her husband. She contacts me , and usually she is very sad, and feels she has no choices because she cannot leave , if she did she cannot take her child. Can you offer me some wisdom"))
"Yes,, you must realize that they created an environment that is lacking in love when they came together to perform the rituals of love, when they allowed the Spirit to come into being through their bodies. They chose this, not I. For this reason, they must be the ones to figure out a way of being greater then themselves. They will explain many things to you, but they cannot be explained in such short views. They thought being a mother and Father was going to be the salvation of their love. But, the love they have among them was not enough to be a greater wisdom for them. For this reason, she is suffering because she has no love for herself and for him. He in return, has love for himself but not for her, she wants to be out of this relationship because it is causing her pain and suffering. Let this be of a word for them, they are the ones who created these events and they have to be the one's to be out of this. Believe in yourself, when you are a child of God, who knows much more than what you are displaying on Earth. You don't need to be brave to live, but,you must be better then what you were like before. When my children come together to produce other children, they must be careful as to what and whom they select to have this interaction with. They don't always be at their best, when are trying to think better for themselves. Let me tell you that. Their lives are full of misery because they select this, they select this for a reason greater then for you to know. But they have selected this way of being."
((Why would someone select to live like this Father God?))
"Their wisdom is greater, then what you see with your human eyes. They wanted to suffer in order to learn, but their learning is not occurring because they can only focus on themselves. They want to be great, but they are afraid to be great. Their views are of many, but you must know that the views they hold were meant to make them grow in Spirit and in Virtue. Let me explain to you further about loving relationships that people hold on earth. They came together for a loving moment, to create love, but their love is short lived as they meant for it to be. Then they complain about being sad and suffering but their sadness and suffering is of no avail to their solution, to their problems and issues. Let them suffer as long as they need to in order to be better people."
((Father God, why does it effect me so much?))
"Because, you allow it to effect you. You don't be a messenger to them, if you join their problems. You are the one to deliver them these words of love, in order to be greater than they are. They must be great in Heavenly Father's ways and being. Let them experience their life so it can be a growing experience for them. They will all grow from their experiences, you are not to live their life for them- for they are the creator of their own experiences."
((What should I tell them Father God?))
"Let them be, let them be and well, for they are the one's who must learn from their experiences. You are not to interfere in their learning but watch their progress."
((Father God, you would think people get married, because they love each other, but it doesn't always work out that way on this Earth, 50% of people who get married in America get divorced..))
"Yes, this is accurate my child, you must know that the ways of land are not always perfect. They chose the lives they have for a greater reason, then what you know."
((For example Father God, why did this friend of mine in Turkey choose the life she has ?))
"She chose her life because she wanted to be a great philosopher of education for women around her, she wanted to experience the learning's of the masters. The way to do this was to be in a relationship that offered her little, but through this she was to better herself. She now resists to learning more because time has show her suffering if painful. You must know that suffering is also a learning instrument. Suffering is to be learned from by people for a reason."
((Why would someone choose to suffer Father God?))
"Let me explain a few things to you my child, you are a loving women, for this reason you are unable to understand. Suffering has many important facets, it motivates people to be greater than what they are. Suffering comes to you when you elect to learn from wisdom from ourselves and from your own self. Suffering is temporary, but you can prolong it if you choose."
((I have another friend, H. and S., they are also having many difficulties, can you please shine some light on their situation for me?))
"Yes, you are again talking about two people that were meant to learn many things. But they are choosing not to be in love for this reason, they are to learn but they cannot be forced to learn. They married for reasons to make each other grow, they married for love but they had no love between them. They married for love but their love was limited, for love is not found in other people, but it is found in your own self. When your love is lacking for yourself, you will not be able to love others"
((So, can we say that People would really learn to love themselves?))
"Yes, this is the Primary way of working on relationships. When you love yourself, you will be able to love others also."
((Why is it so hard for people to love themselves Father God?))
"They love themselves, but think and believe that others will make them more lovable. Loving others will only add to your unhappiness if you don't have love for yourself. Love yourself first, and than love from others will come to you."
((How does a person love themselves Father god?))
"Let me explain to you that I gave love to all my beings when they were created. Loving is a selfless act, you have to let go of your own selfishness in order to love. When a person is selfish, they think of their own selves but when you let of your selfishness than your greater love will surface on to your being."
((So, why do people become selfish?))
"They become selfish, because they experienced events that caused them to experience their own selves as the center of their own lives. They become selfish because their minds limit them from focusing on others. They become selfish because they are unable to share the wisdom of love with others. But, they expect others to share their love with them, their selfishness is a center of their own attention. For this reason they are unable to love." "My child, you are to wander no more about this subject, you are to learn that everyone must experience their lives according to what they dictate as the truth for them. They want to be great people, than they must act and talk like great people. Great people don't think of their own selves, but they focus on others. They focus on others, because the presence of others illuminates their own selves. For this reason they are not selfish. Their self is not the center of their world, they realize this but they don't always follow up these emotions of self-centeredness."
((Father God, how could a person not be selfish))
"They need to be aware of their own feelings, for being self-centered is a closed door to your self-growth. When the door is closed your spirit, mind and soul will not be learning the lessons that it is to learn. For this reason, you can overcome being self-centered by practicing giving, by practicing loving and by practicing being great to those around you. When you love yourself -- your love will trespass these boundaries that you set out for yourself and others. When you love someone, your love can overcome many factors of being. You can be an invisible force to make them see, who they are."
((What if a person marries a person who doesn't love them?))
"When you marry someone who is not capable of loving you or anyone for that matter. You are the one who can step out of this marriage or you can stay but suffer."
((So, we have 2 options))
"Yes, we have two options, you can stay but suffer but grow, OR you can leave for , than you will not suffer and grow. When you suffer, you grow. Suffering is allowed to a level WHERE there is no joy but NO harm either. When a relationship becomes harmful to one's way of being, than this individual must leave and be alone for a while in order to be greater as individual themselves. When people leave relationships for the fact that they WANT happiness, HAPPINESS is found within the person, NOT from the outside sources."
((Talking to you today Father God, I was looking for some miraculous answers but I can see that you want us to find our own way))
"Yes, to a point this is true, bu you must know when the truth lies within YOU. You are the creator of your own REALITY. Your reality will either force you to learn or to NOT learn. You are the master of your own creation. A creation of actions that will produce the results that you are seeking to learn FROM. Let me remind you again, YOUR creation is only profound to what you WANT to learn."
"My child, you want to help all people around you, but you must realize that your help is only as deep as your own understanding of this situation. For this reason, you were given this conversation today, in order for you to be more cognizant about relationships. Your relationships on earth will be of many factors, but they were all chosen by you in order for YOU to learn from them. They weren't chosen for you by outside sources than YOU ALONE. You made all things possible for yourself in order for you to learn from your doings. But, when time comes and time is DIFFICULT, than you want to fly away from the pain that is causing you to live in. But you must realize that the pain you are feeling is there temporarily and you must be the judge and the creator of your own reality. Your are entrusted on this earth to live and be the best that you can be. For your knowledge is of your own doing. Let me explain to you a bit more on this subject... For you must be able to understand the importance of the lessons you chose on this earth. When you arrived on this earth, you have chosen a certain path to follow on your journey in order to learn from it. But, the paths you chose are not always the best for you, therefor, you are the creator of the paths you chose. But learn from them also. The paths you chose are difficult and sometimes even painful for your existence, but you are the master mind of all things."
((I understand this Father God, but it is so hard to explain this to other people))
"They are to live and learn, Learn to know, and know to be better at the lives they chose to come to. Let them find their own path, for this reason you are not allowing them to experience their full affection--if you allow yourself to be over dominated by their thoughts and sadness. You will not be a helping factor if you choose to interfere in their lives. For this reason, allow people to feel what they need to in order for them to be their best . If they choose to learn from their own being"
((Is there such thing as mistakes Father God?))
"Let me tell you what "mistakes' are, Mistakes are events that you don't want to see because they produce pain and suffering to you, but let me tell you that there are no mistakes on THIS EARTH. For this reason, you are never to think that there is ANY mistakes--all mistakes are learning experiences for you to grow from and to be your best."
((I can agree with that, as it applies to my life also..))
"Yes, you had thought you made many mistakes, but because of all those experiences you learned so many things my child. You learned how to be strong, you learned how to be brave, you learned how to care for yourself, your learned how to love yourself, your learned how to love other and let be."
((I thank you Father God for this beautiful lesson today, I am sorry that I came to you on this topic. Having people close to me, I was feeling sad to watch them go through greater sadness. And it produces uncomfortable feelings for me I guess.))
"Yes, you are also to learn from your own emotions that are evoked within you. You are feeling overwhelmed for a reason, but you are the one who must ponder upon why you feel that way."
((I guess, I want to create full happiness around me so, I don't feel the sadness.))
"Yes, you are right, you are trying to create a balanced world around you. BUT there is no balance my child, you are the balancing force yourself for this reason you must create a force that is balanced also. When you are not in balance of your own emotions than you will be skewed as to what you feel and letting others be the same way. You don't want to feel the emotions of negativity and sadness, and for this reason you are trying to over dominate their lives in order to stop this negativity but PLEASE know that your negativity is not a greater thing but a factor that will stagnate your own growth for further growing."
((When people have a problem Father God, is it best than not to listen?))
"Yes, sometimes it is. For when you are listening to their negative emotions, than those negative emotions are also absorbing to your being. Your negative emotions are to be there as a force to be as a reminder to you, but not to be absorbed by you. When you listen to people and their issues, you are identifying with them for this reason you feel overwhelmed by their issues. Let them learn from their own issues, let them be for the matter of their own learning."
((So, when a person is experiencing problems, any one of us, in their marriage or in life, should we not talk about it with them. What do you suggest Father god?))
""Tell me something , when you are listening to them, what are you learning?"
((Nothing))
"Then , why are you listening?"
((I don't know)) (as I said this, I felt truly stupid, because I am not learning anything and I am really not being of a help either, so...I was glad when Father God asked me this...it made me stop to think about what the heck I am doing...if anything)
"This is my point, when you listen to people's problems, you are not the help they need. The help they need is from their own inner source, but if they don't want to be awakened to REALIZE their own strength, than you are not to interfere with their own learning."
((So, as a conclusion to this, should I not even listen to all this stuff?))
"Yes, for the time being until they are cognizant of their own selves, you are to be alone. Let them be alone also. But, let them be alone to learn from their own mistakes, that they chose to overcome as they live, let them be to be awakened, BUT LET THEM BE."
((so, when we are having issues and problems, is it best not to talk about them than? is that what we can say?))
"Yes, it is best not to talk about it FOR IT SERVES NO purpose to your being and to your way of being. You can listen to them but you cannot absorb their sadness, their misery, for it is FOR them. Not for you"
((Thank you Father God)))
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I was very appreciative of God's knowledge in this subject, for I had felt overwhelmed. I realize that we are all responsible and when we are experiencing difficulties and hard times in life, there is something to learn from them, if not about the events, IT IS ABOUT OUR OWN SELVES. We cannot be sad enough to take some one's sadness away, we cannot be sick enough to take someones' sickness away...but, we can only be a friend...and if they are truly a friend, they will want to better their lives for themselves.
blessings to all, never forget how strong you are in mind, body and spirit. Amen.
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